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 Children need adults to teach, guide and support them as they grow and learn but why is it that every time I say NO,  my baby bursts into flames? Usually, it starts with them asking "Kwa nini?" And one thing I have learnt quite painfully as most of my fellow mothers would relate, telling them "It's because I said so" is the worst mistake any parent would ever commit. Before you vehemently descend on me, hear me out. Most of the time this response slides quite easily from our tongues. If you don't know better it will seem an easier option as an answer instead of the whole trying to explain debacle. Right??..... WRONG!! But why does this happen? I find it more as a curiosity issue in a child and quite sincerely they don't understand negation. For example "Don't hit your sister" sounds more like "hit your sister" to our adorable munchkin's ears, because it is usually what they end up doing since their developing minds don't ...

 I never thought I would become a mother at such a young age. When I found out I was pregnant, my world changed instantly. The father of my child wasn’t there in those early years, and while that was difficult, I was blessed to have my family by my side. Their unwavering support kept me going, even when the road felt uncertain. Years later, the father of my child and his family—his mother, brother, and sister—began to step in and help. Their support, though delayed, made a difference, reminding me that people can change and that help sometimes comes when you least expect it. My journey through young motherhood inspired me to do more for girls and young mothers facing similar struggles. This is why I became heavily involved with Protect a Girl’s Image Organization —to ensure no young mother feels alone and that every child gets the chance to grow up in a supportive environment. The Reality of Teenage Motherhood Being a teenage mother is a challenge, even with family support. Society...

 Sometimes, the most unexpected moments leave the deepest impact. This past weekend, I joined a surprise visit to a local church where some of the organization's beneficiaries worship. I had no idea what to expect -- but what I experienced will stay with me forever. Stepping Into Pure Joy As I walked into the church, the sound of joyful singing and rhythmic clapping filled the air. The energy was overwhelmingly beautiful -- people dancing, smiling, and lifting their hands in praise. It was a moment of pure gratitude, untouched by material worries or life's struggles. I looked around and saw familiar faces -- some of the organization's beneficiaries, people we've walked alongside in difficult times. Yet, here they were, not dwelling on what they lacked but celebrating what they had. Their faith and resilience humbled me. A Lesson I Didn't Expect As I stood there, taking it all in, a thought hit me hard: We are not called just to be good, but to be Godly. It is easy t...

 Your wallet is talking. Loudly!! And guess what? It has a lot to say. An empty wallet isn't just a financial statement-it's a whole personality trait. Let's break it down:  1. The "My Money is in Investments" Type  You swear you're not broke--your money is just "tied up." Maybe it's in stocks, crypto, a chama, or "waiting to mature." Meanwhile, you are surviving on instant noodles, convincing yourself it's a temporary sacrifice for future wealth. Wallet Diagnosis: Future millionaire, current struggler. 2. The "Payday is Around The Corner" Believer Your wallet is emptier than a ghost town, but your confidence is at an all-time high. Bills? No problem. Debts? Minor inconvenience. You're already making plans for a "lit weekend" because, hey, payday is coming! (Even if your bills are too) Wallet Diagnosis: Delusion with a sprinkle of hope. 3. The "Generous Giver" Your wallet is empty but your heart is ...

The Corporate Façade Walk into any corporate office, and you'll notice a pattern - sharp suits, confident posture, carefully crafted PowerPoint presentations, and a whole lot of corporate jargon. Professionals in many companies are obsessed with looking intelligent, but when it comes to real decision-making, problem-solving, and innovation, many fall flat. This obsession with performing intelligence rather than applying intelligence is slowing down progress. Instead of hiring and promoting those with real knowledge and critical thinking skills, organizations often reward those who can simply sell the illusion of competence. To some degree it starts to complicate things, in that there are various factors at play and many of the actors in the system believe in a beautiful vision instead of value in outcome. So why is this happening, and how can businesses shift towards prioritizing actual intelligence over corporate theatrics? The Performance Over Competence Trap Keyword Focus: Corpo...

 Have you ever been in a relationship where someone keeps making big promises but actually never follows through? You hold on, thinking commitment is just around the corner, but somehow it never arrives.  Ever heard of : "I want to marry you someday" "Just give me some time" "We'll move in together soon" If you've heard these lines but seen no real action, you might be a victim of breadcrumbing. You'll notice a somewhat sporadic contact where the communication is inconsistent, avoidance of making concrete plans or even expressing clear intentions and having a feeling of uncertainty; feelings of being a spectator in a relationship you're supposed to be a team player in. So what exactly is breadcrumbing? In my opinion, it is when one party wants the fun and amazing part of being with someone but doesn't want to keep their end of the bargain. You are stringed along before they magically disappear out of the blue after they are done being i...